Angry Music, Vampires, & New England--Oh My! An Ode to Black

Lately, I'm all about black. Black clothes are pretty much my uniform at work, black nails have become a part of my identity, a light smokey eye has taken over my cosmetic repertoire, and even my hair is black now. I love black for being simultaneously functional, chic, and totally classic.

So what's the deal? Have I gone emo? Am I a bit too obsessed with vampires? Maybe there's a little too much angry music on my iPod? My mother will tell you it's New England. When she and my Daddy moved back to Boston after living in LA for years, she said that her technicolor sunny California wardrobe stood out like a sore thumb against the black and grey New England background. So maybe that's it--maybe I'm a little too New England...

Whatever the reason, black is the new black--at least for me. So as an ode to the color I so dearly love and obsess over, I thought I would share some of my favorite black possessions with you. Some are old, some are new--but none are borrowed and NONE are blue!

Black Tee. Okay, let's rewind to the part about how I might be a little too obsessed with vampires: it's true. But can we also talk about what an amaaazing husband I have, considering that he purchased this tee for me, despite my competing affections for the fictitious and fiercely handsome pale face? Is it so wrong to love them equally?



Black Nails. French manicures are soooo last year! Like a little black dress (LBD!), black nails are classic. Whether you opt for Chimney Sweep or Black Satin, rest assured that your nails will work for day or night, work or play. Just make sure you keep your nails short and square; we don't need to get all creature from the black lagoon or anything.

Black Jeans. My office has a no denim rule. I know, right?--so unfair! The kicker is that my jeans are some of the nicest things I own! Yet, I have found that it's possible to bend the rules with black jeans, and my pair of black Joe's Jeans with their tasteful cigarette leg is my favorite way to go. Am I going to get totally nailed by putting this confession on the internet? Likely. But for the sake of you fashionistas living in a no-denim-by-day world out there, I'll take the hit.

Black Shoes. I received my first pair of Chucks as a child, but we were reacquainted during college when a friend gave me a pair (adult-sized this time) for my birthday--and it's been a love affair ever since. Unlike Kristen Stewart, I never wear them with a party dress--nor do I wear them to work (some rules can neither be bent nor broken). But every other time and place is fair game. Like most black apparel, they are comfortable, classic, and fabulous.

Black Hoodie. Sometimes a fashionista just wants to be cozy (hello, lolly.brand!), and nothing is more cozy than a hoodie. For years now, my black hoodie and I have been inseparable. Granted, my "black hoodie" is more like a series of different black hoodies that have been used, abused, and worn out. My new favorite brand for cozy-cozies is Alternative Apparel (not to be confused with American Apparel), AND if you're loving this fabulous Rocky style hoodie, then just wait until it has the skater graphic from brand.L by lolly.brand on it!* Coming soon...

Painting my nails in preparation for a friend's Christmas party a couple of weeks ago, my adorable husband remarked that black wasn't exactly the most festive choice. Nonetheless, it certainly looked fierce with my black and gold Yansi Fugel dress! What can I say? I guess I'm just happy being a black sheep--and loving angry music, vampires, and New England (obvi).

See you next year, dearest fashionista friends! I'll be the one wearing black...

XOXO,
Lolly



*Obviously, I'm ALL about shameless self-promotion, so let me just add this: brand.L skater hoodies will be available in January 2010--yay! Stay tuned at www.lollybrand.net for exclusive details. Plus, lolly.brand is now on Facebook; join the group by clicking here!


Images, in order of appearance: (1) Gashly Crumb Tinies drawing by Edward Gorey, image thanks to http://www.mentalfloss.com; (2) Team Edward Crew $24 from Urban Outfitters, online at www.urbanoutfitters.com; (3) Black Satin Nail Polish by Chanel, photo from www.fashionista.com; (4) Cigarette Leg Jeans in black by Joe's Jeans $165, available at Shopbop (www.shopbop.com); (5) Converse sneakers in black, photo thanks to Star Style Inc. (www.starstyleinc.com); (6) Rocky Zip Up Fleece Hoodie in eco black by Alternative Apparel, photo thanks to Alternative Apparel (http://www.alternativeapparel.com/).

Dirty Girl!

I normally dread the day after Christmas, when all of the excitement and anticipation leading up to the holiday suddenly dissipates, leaving me surrounded by gifts--yet sadly empty. I'm happy to report that, thanks to a ridiculously generous gift from my fabulous aunt and her family, this year was different. In fact, the fateful "morning after" smiled down upon my mother, sister, and me as we made our way to Cranwell for a girls' day at the spa. Jealous???

After lunch, wearing white fluffy robes, we settled in at the Image Center for our nail treatments. Expecting to choose from the standard selection of my beloved OPI and Essie polish, I was pleasantly surprised to see the luxurious collection from Butter of London--exclusively. And so, like Mary Poppins, I fell in love with a Chimney Sweep...

According to the Butter's handy online dictionary, chimney sweeps were often depicted in Victorian literature as heartless, abusive scoundrels. Not unlike its namesake, this fabulous colour is a smudgy charcoal with a subtle metallic sheen. It's so dark that it's almost black, and it's borderline dirty in the most irresistible way. Move over, Chanel... Thanks to Butter, I'm a dirty girl!

Image: Chimney Sweep nail colour by Butter of London $14, available online at www.butterlondon.com.

Socks Again!

With just a few days left until Christmas, last night found me furiously multi-tasking in a desperate attempt to finish my holiday to-do list (if only...). As a consolation, I put on my newly purchased A Charlie Brown Christmas DVD to lift my spirits. What I didn't realize was that, in addition to A Charlie Brown Christmas, my DVD also featured It's Christmas Time Again, Charlie Brown--added bonus!

You're probably wondering where this is going, seeing that this is a fashion blog... Well, let me first tell you that It's Christmas Time Again, Charlie Brown doesn't hold a candle to A Charlie Brown Christmas. That said, I still had to laugh at the following scene, where Sally and Linus are listening to "The Twelve Days of Christmas" on the radio:

Sally: That song drives me crazy! What in the word is a "calling bird"?!

Linus: A "calling bird" is a kind of partridge. In 1 Samuel 26:20, it says, "For the King of Israel has come out to seek my life, just as though he were hunting the calling bird." There's a play on words here, you see. David was standing on a mountain calling, and he compared himself to a partridge being hunted. Isn't that fascinating?

Sally: If I get socks again for Christmas this year, I'll go even more crazy!!!

What Charlie Brown's little sis doesn't know is that socks are a faaaaabulous gift. In fact, I attended a Sock Swap with my favorite Bessie Blue girls just a few weeks ago (if you're slow on the uptake, that's a Yankee Swap where only socks are swapped), and I've never seen a more heated exchange of footwear since the Pucci boots scene in Confessions of a Shopaholic! With socks, the possibilities are endless. I'm partial to knee-socks, especially if they are argyle. My husband, on the other hand, absolutely adores Smart Wool socks. My dearest Momma is obsessed with dainty little ankle socks. And the list goes on... So, silly Sally, I will have to (respectfully) disagree. In the winter especially, everyone wears socks! So why not gift them?

Quotes taken from It's Christmas Time Again, Charlie Brown (1992). Images, in order of appearance: (1) Scene from A Charlie Brown Christmas (1965), thanks to TV.com (http://www.tv.com/); (2) Scene from It's Christmas Time Again, Charlie Brown (1992), thanks to YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/); (3) J. Crew argyle socks, photo thanks to Tres Tres Chic blog (http://sochicitsscary.blogspot.com).

Hey, Sugar Lips!

Q: Hey sugar lips, how did you get so sweet?

A: Brown Sugar Lip Scrub from Sara Happ--yum!

Believe it or not, the Boston blizzard this past weekend found me braving the snow to make my spa appointment at Bella Sante like the crazed fashionista that I am (darn those 24-hour cancellation policies!). After changing back into my street clothes following my appointment, I was horrified by my reflection in the mirror: pale skin, split ends, and chapped lips--OH MY! Winter is such a mean girl (good thing I was armed with my make-up case).

That said, one can only call it fate that a sample of Sara Happ's fabulous lip treatment met me at the check-out counter. Her Brown Sugar Lip Scrub eliminates dry, flaky skin to leave lips ridiculously soft and supple using the naturally exfoliating power of (surprise, surprise) brown sugar. The best part? Lick your lips post-treatment for a little bit of yummm.

As for my pale skin and split ends? Well, I booked a hair appointment for next week, and I am desperately hoping that Santa puts a pair of tickets to Hawaii in my stocking on Friday (hint, hint)... After all, I've been such a good girl!

Image: Brown Sugar Lip Scrub $24, from Sara Happ--available online at www.sarahapp.com and at select Bella Sante locations.

Winter Hair Woes: Gone!

In a lot of ways, my hair loves the winter. It requires faaar less work on my part to keep it straight and tame. Though I still have to flat iron, my prep time drops from ten minutes to five. So easy, right? The only problem: static. The cold, dry air results in so much static electricity that you could run a generator from my luscious locks!

Never one to keep my complaints to myself (not exactly my best quality), the lunch hour found me swapping hair-care woes with a few female coworkers. I have to say that I'm glad I did; otherwise, I may never have learned of Frédéric Fekkai's Winter Anti-Static Weightless Mist. One of my co-workers keeps a bottle in her desk drawer to keep her own winter hair woes under control and was generous enough to let me test it out.

So what's the secret of this seemingly magic hair potion? Fekkai uses organic salt to neutralize the static charge and soften the surface of the hair, and a few spritzes is really all you need to get the job done. The mist has a light coconut scent (or so I've been told--my olfactory system is a total failure) that's subtle yet reminiscent of warmer, sunnier days (sigh). Believe me, YOU NEED THIS. Winter hair woes: gone! Just like that.


Special thanks to Deb for sharing her hair-care secret with me!

Image: Winter Anti-Static Weightless Mist by Frederic Fekkai $15, image thanks to FabSugar (www.fabsugar.com).

Five Fun, Festive Gifts Under $50 (A Girl's Guide to Giving to Guys)

As you ladies may already know, in last week's post, we gave your guy a few gift ideas for you (Awww! So sweet, right?). Now the tables have turned. Are you done with your holiday shopping yet? I didn't think so. Never fear, today's handy guide to giving features five fun, festive guy gifts. Feeling the urge to splurge? No need! These gifts are conveniently priced under $50 each...

1. Printed Lumberjack Pullover Hoodie from Urban Outfitters: As rugged as your manly man claims to be, you know he could use the extra layer. This hoodie's outdoorsy lumberjack print may inspire him to venture outside to chop wood, but maybe you can convince him to cozy up with you by the fire instead... Pricetag: $34

2. Scrolling LCD Party Watch from Urban Outfitters: In love with a charming chap who isn't quite so punctual? All is not yet lost. This solar-powered, futuristic timepiece will keep him in the know, at least when it comes to day, date, and time; the rest is up to him (we know he can handle it). Pricetag: $30

3. J. Crew Secret Wash Point-Collar Shirt: Pining after a prepster prince? Keep him looking sharp with a festive red gingham shirt that's actually super soft too, thanks to J. Crew's special "secret wash." The best part? For an extra $10, you can add a monogram. After all, can you really do preppie without a monogram? Pricetag: $49.50

4. Classic SD Swiss Army Knife: Are you mooning over a mountain man? Fortunately for you, the perfect gift has arrived. This handy pocket-sized Swiss Army knife in a lively holiday red (conveniently the signature color of the Swiss Army brand) is perfect for everyday adventures--or for going on a bear hunt (your choice). Pricetag: $17.50

5. J. Crew Camp Socks: Baby, it's colddd outside! Whether your guy is a camper or a cuddler, you can keep him warm with a pair of comfy camp socks made in the last remaining sock mill in Vermont. Pricetag: $16.50

So there you have it! This year, give your guy something he will love almost as much as he loves you. So go ahead, get your shopping on! And may your days be merry and bright.

Images, in order of appearance: (1) Printed Lumberjack Pullover Hoodie in red $34, from Urban Outfitters (www.urbanoutfitters.com); (2) Scrolling LCD Party Watch in red $30, also from Urban Outfitters; (3) Secret Wash Point-Collar Shirt in large gingham/authentic red $49.50, from J. Crew (www.jcrew.com); (4) Classic SD Swiss Army Knife $17.50, from Victorinox Swiss Army (http://www.swissarmy.com/); (5) Camp Socks in salsa $16.50, also from J. Crew.

Holiday Dress Lust

Growing up in my family, the holidays were always the most wonderful time of the year. This was the case for many reasons, but for me, one of the best parts of the Christmas count-down was looking forward to wearing my special Christmas dress. In the month of December, my mom would surprise me with a fabulous, festive dress that would make its debut when we went to church on Christmas Eve. And my mother had the best taste in Christmas dresses: reds, golds, and black in velvet, taffeta, and lace--always extravagant and always lovely.

Momma doesn't buy Christmas dresses for me anymore (Sigh. Being a grown-up is awfully hard work!), but I have tried to maintain her tradition and like to get myself something special to wear during the holiday season. Hence my holiday dress lust; it happens every year. During December, it seems that gorgeous gowns are EVERYWHERE. But a Christmas dress is something special, something extraordinary. Save the little black dress for cocktail parties; a Christmas dress is much, much more.

So what am I lusting after this year? It seems Madame Diane von Furstenberg has done it again! The DvF Cerrado Dress has won my heart. Made of flowing washed chiffon with a fly-away skirt hem, the explosion of color (its official color actually is "color explosion," I kid you not) puts it in a category all its own. You know the expression, like a kid in a candy shop? Well, the technicolor print of this dress sort of makes a fashionista look like she's wearing that same candy shop--and I mean that in the very best way. It is nothing short of extraordinary, and I WANT IT!!!

Hence, the following:

Dear Santa,
I have been a very, very good girl this year.

So please bring me a pretty dress.

You know you love me.

XOXO,

Lolly

Image: Cerrado Dress in color explosion $425 by Diane von Furstenberg (online at www.dvf.com).

Five Fun, Festive Gifts Under $20 (A Guy's Guide to Giving to Girls)

'Tis the season for giving, but we're (still) in a recession. Guys, this is for YOU. Yes, diamonds might be a girl's best friend, but it really is the thought that counts. So don't fret! Today's handy guide to giving features five fun, festive gifts that are conveniently priced under $20 each. Intrigued? Read on...

1. Lacoste Solid Pique Headband: Is your gorgeous girl a proud prepster? Don't worry, we've got her covered. This festive red headband is made of the same material as all those polos in her closet. And the best part? It's actually comfortable. So make your preppy princess proud. Pricetag: $14

2. Eight Point Readers from Anthropologie : In love with a bookworm? How convenient that the sexy librarian look is always in fashion at Anthropologie. Make her literary adventures more stylish with these red reading glasses. Your girl may be smart, but I'm willing to bet she's sassy too. Pricetag: $14.95

3. Urban Outfitters Bonox Clock: Newly wed and setting up a cozy little nest together? Dazzle your wifey with your knowledge of decor by way of a funky red alarm clock. That vintage chic look will get her every time. Pricetag: $18

4. Urban Outfitters Sequin Hinge Wallet: Got yourself a glamorous gal? Well, that's an easy one; it's all about the sparkle factor. Make her holiday party outfits shine with this red sequin clutch. She can hold her fabulously festive clutch in one hand and your hand in the other. Pricetag: $18

5. Juicy Couture All-Over Holiday Boy Briefs: No matter what kind of lovely lady is in your life, one thing is for sure: all girls love undies. Especially Juicy's fun, festive holiday selection. And don't worry, she won't think you're one of those skeevy guys who sheepishly browses the naughty nighties at Victoria's Secret. These are boy shorts for goodness sake! And Juicy. Enough said.

What did I tell you? Contrary to popular opinion, it is indeed possible to keep your wallet and your lady happy at the same time. How's that for holiday spirit? Until next time, merry, merry!

Images, in order of appearance: (1) Solid Pique Headband in red $14 from Lacoste (http://www.shopapparel.lacoste.com/); (2) Eight Point Readers in red, on sale for $14.95 from Anthropologie (www.anthropologie.com); (3) Bonox Clock in red $18 from Urban Outfitters (www.urbanoutfitters.com); (4) Sequin Hinge Wallet in red $18, also from Urban Outfitters; (5)

Juicy Couture All-Over Holiday Boy Briefs $18, available from Bloomingdales (www.bloomingdales.com).

Let It Snow, Let It Snow, Let It Snow

After Saturday night's snowfall here in Boston, it seems that winter is here to stay. Though I will eventually tire of winter, at this time of year it feels too festive to lament the white blanket of snow on the ground. Of course, it also inspires a certain wardrobe evolution, with a general inclination towards a more snowy color palette.

You know the saying, If you can't beat them, join them? Well, when you live in New England, there is absolutely no use in fighting the snow. It will snow, you will shovel, and you must bundle up against the icy temperatures. But it's not all bad! In addition to building character, the winter also offers the opportunity to embrace cozy sweaters and slippers, glittering accessories, and snowy white apparel. So while you make yourself a cup of hot chocolate, allow me to share some of my favorite snowy accoutrements...

1. Cocktail party: Glam up your holiday party wardrobe with a statement bangle like this one, where a wintery mix of pearls and rhinestones rest in silk.

2. Skating on Frog Pond: It is possible to be dazzling and warm, especially with these sweater-knit gloves. Anything but ordinary, they feature a sprinkling of tiny pearls, as well as a ruffle at the wrists. Now if only you can master that spin on the skating rink...

3. It's in the bag: I'm one of those girls who firmly believes that a bigger bag is better, but it's horribly inconvenient to lug around a Mary Poppins' sized bag to holiday parties. For festive occasions, it's fun to change the scenery with something portable and striking, like this icy metallic rosette clutch.

4. Skirting the issue: I'm all for dresses, but sometimes a skirt can be just as fun. Whether it's for work or play, I'm loving this snowy sweater-knit skirt with a soft dusting of ivory rosettes.

5. Slip into something more comfortable... Please, I'm only talking about slippers, and I just adore these ballet-style slippers. Made of metallic-flecked wool with a bow at the toes?--how could you not love them? For me, one of the best parts about the winter is snuggling up by the fire (yes, I have a fireplace--jealous?) in cozy pajamas and comfy slippers. After all, my poor, high-heel-wearing feet deserve the break.

6. All wrapped up: Speaking of something more comfortable, let's talk about layers. This ivory jacket is made of French terry, and it doesn't get much more comfortable than that. As far as edge factor, the asymmetrical neckline and sweeping collar is a definite plus.

7. Sparkle bright: For the budget-conscious fashionista, spending all that hard-earned cash over the holidays can be a bit of a drag. No longer! With a glittery wallet like this one, goodbye, holiday blues--and helloooo, sparkle!

So, darling snow bunny friends, you can see that it doesn't take much to dazzle--especially with winter as our guide. What else can I say? Let it snow, let it snow, let it snow!

Images, in order of appearance: (1) Bubble Bath Bangle $128; from Anthropologie (http://www.anthropologie.com/); (2) Stepping Stone Gloves $88, also from Anthropologie; (3) Iced Rosettes Clutch $298, also from Anthropologie; (4) Snow Flower Skirt $148, also from Anthropologie; (5) Metallic Wool Ballet Slippers $54, from J. Crew (www.jcrew.com); (6) Directional Button-Up $68, also from Anthropologie; (7) Crushed Glitter Magic Wallet $16.50, also from J. Crew.

Too Turquoise

One bland November weekend (well, not really--it was right before Thanksgiving), I ventured up Canada way (Montréal, in particular, of course!) to visit some old friends and recall the simple pleasures of my summer life. I was invited to a surprise engagement/birthday party of a friend, and while I was there, noticed a beautiful and exciting trend: deep turqouise for fall.

Everyone was doing it. The bride-to-be/birthday girl had on a beautiful black and turquoise dress. Her best friend's dress was also in the same family. As I looked down, I noticed that I was wearing turquoise tights with my burgundy pumps and little black dress. It was everywhere, even the lights in our classy Gossip Girl-esque supper club. Even Bella is doing it.

When I trudged back to Ohio (sigh), I noticed it was everywhere here as well. When my Astronomy professor wore a turquoise shirt to class, I knew it was truly a trend. Interestingly, we also have learned in Astronomy that, when stars are moving towards us, they are called "blueshifted" because we perceive the light they emit as blue due to their motion. A blue tint also indicates new star formation in the sky. Fashion taking a hint from the Laws of Physics? I'm peachy with that.

Blue, especially lighter turqouise, is so often seen as a summer color, given its bright, tropical and beachy feel. Yet, a deeper turquoise is showing us all that there can be some versatility to color, and there is a way to wear blue in autumn without defaulting to navy.

The verdict: love it. It's a perfect pop of color that plays surprisingly well with others, especially neutrals. It's the perfect color for a scarf, tights, or even pendant if you're in the mood for a touch of the American Southwest. So don't just settle for bland blues; invest in some new turquoise pieces and see what happens!

xoxo la montréalaise

Images, in order of appearance: (1) Bella Swan and Edward Cullen (http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/2120989/bella_swan_from_twilight_halloween.html); (2) Turquoise ballet flats, available at Polyvore (www.polyvore.com).

Refresh Your Smile!

My new obsession: Ultra Mentha Lip Shine from C.O. Bigelow Apothecaries. I received a tube as a gift from my ultra-stylish friend, Katie, and I've been addicted ever since. For those unfamiliar with this fabulous beauty product, allow me to dish...

The chemists at C.O. Bigelow have infused their lip treatment with a spicy blend of peppermint oil and field mint oil. The result is a sheer, glossy shine that tingles your lips and actually freshens your breath. After a single application, my lips are happy and shiny, AND I feel like I just finished chewing a stick of mint gum. It's amazing.

The added bonus is, for a working gal like me, it's the ideal fresh breath solution. Chewing gum at the office is a serious no-no, yet icky breath is always a no-no. Bigelow's Mentha offers a two-for-one fix; while glossing your lips, your mouth gets all minty-fresh too. It's like the Orbit commercial--Dirty mouth? Clean it up!--minus the gum. So go ahead, refresh your smile!

Image: Ultra Mentha Lip Shine $7.50, from C.O. Bigelow Apothecaries (online at www.bigelowchemists.com).

Episode 6, The Verdict: Loving Lively

Last week, I dared to ask you about Blake Lively's hair: love it or loathe it? Well, according to the New York Times article published earlier this month, a Google search of “Blake Lively Hair” produces 713,000 results, many of them “how to’s.” So maybe it was a stupid question, seeing that not one of you dared to utter the word "loathe." When it comes to this stunning gossip girl, we are clearly head-over-heels for her hair.

How to get the lovely Lively look is another story. The Times called her hair an exercise in studied dishevelment, which couldn't be more accurate. Translation: she manages to look like she rolled out of bed totally ready for the runway, a seemingly impossible feat. When it comes to copping her style, most of us are missing one element: the color, the length, the texture, the stylist... One of my friends has a head full of gorgeous blonde hair, but it defies her efforts to make it tussle. Another friend is brunette (like me), begging the question: can you have the hair without being a Blake-blonde?

Apparently, Jennifer Johnson, Miss Lively's stylist on the set of Gossip Girl, creates Blake's signature bedhead glam by letting her hair dry in a simple chignon. Of course, if you're not Serena van der Woodsen, I'm guessing you don't have time to wait for your hair to dry--especially when it's knotted in a chignon. A quick DIY tussle technique that I like to use is, after using a curling iron to make a few big, loose curls, I gently tease my hair at the roots with a comb. Then, I flip my hair upside down and spritz with a light holding spray. I may not be blonde, and I'm certainly no stylist--but I can tussle with the best of 'em.

Though it would be far easier to be Blake Lively, her luscious locks are actually within reach. Such is the beauty (literally) of that "All-American" look. As John Barrett, whose hair salon is located above Bergdorf Goodman in Manhattan (sigh!), said to the Times, It looks accidental, but actually it takes work. For a fashionista?--Please! It's all in a day's work.

Quotes and information from: A 'Gossip Girl' Look, Pronto! by Sarah Maslin Nir, from the New York Times on November 10, 2009. To read the full article, click here. Images, in order of appearance: (1) Blake Lively W Magazine Cover, photo thanks to Gossip Girl Insider (www.gossipgirlinsider.com); (2) Blake Lively, photo from Buzz Sugar (online at http://xoxo-gossip-girl.buzzsugar.com/).

Love It or Loathe It? Episode 6: Blake Lively Hair

Happy Monday, dearest fashionista friends! Once again, your fashion expertise is needed for another episode of Love It or Loathe It? here at She's Come Unheeled. The issue? Hair, something we fashionistas take very, very seriously.

More specifically... A recent New York Times article suggested that Blake Lively's hair is the new "Rachel," the Jennifer Aniston inspired 'do that took salons by storm during the days of Friends (sigh). Well, move over, Rachel! These days, Blake Lively's long, luscious locks seem to be the most coveted. According to the Times, everyone wants Blake's "extra long, ultra-shiny blond with a mussed-up tussle frolicking through the ends." The question for you, my lovelies: IS IT TRUE?

Blake Lively Hair:

Do you love/want it or loathe it?--and why?

Send me an email or post your comments! The verdict will be delivered when She's Come Unheeled returns after Thanksgiving.

Happy holidays, dear ones--and as always, thank you!

XOXO,
Lolly


Images, in order of appearance: (1) Blake Lively and Leighton Meester, as Serena van der Woodsen and Blair Waldorf on the CW's Gossip Girl, photo thanks to Gossip Girl Insider (www.gossipgirlinsider.com); (2) Blake Lively, photo thanks to http://fashionfeen.files.wordpress.com.

Fashions for the New Moon

Happy New Moon day, fellow fanatics! As if it were a coincidence that it's raining like we are living in Forks today--I think not! In honor of the loooong-awaited release of the film version of the second book in the Twilight series, today's post is all about vampire fashion. So don't say you weren't warned.

But before we continue, let me first give credit where credit is due: one Annie Rose and one Mary Rene. The truth is, until April of this year, Twilight wasn't anywhere near my radar--let alone on it. But that's what a weekend in Seattle with the girls will do to you: hello, obsession! Since then, 4 books have been read (not to mention the two that have been re-read, but that's neither here nor there), and one movie has been watched...a lot. Needless to say, now I love boys who sparkle in the sunlight.

So, as a tribute, I wanted to share a few fabulously vampire-themed fashion MUST-HAVES:

1. The teeth... Because: If it doesn't have fangs, I'm so not interested. Hello, pearly whites--or sterling, in the case of this vampire fang necklace from Etsy. If you didn't think it was possible to vamp up your gangster grill, how wrong you were. And for the very reasonable price of $20?--Go ahead, bite me.

2. The pout... Because: What is a vampire without venom? My sister and I have loved DuWop's Lip Venom for years, thanks to the minty fresh sting and fancy applicator (I am admittedly a sucker for packaging--what my husband calls a "marketer's dream"), and now there's something new in the venom! According to DuWop, their new Twilight Venom is a shimmering crimson lip stain suspended in a venom-laced liquid lip conditioner with a super potent bite. Edward Cullen/Rob Pattinson is unfortunately not part of the packaged deal, but if it's any consolation, at least you'll be left with viciously venomous lips.


3. The gear... Because: If we learn nothing else from Bella, it's to always wear your heart on your sleeve. After all, nothing says "eternal love" quite like a graphic tee; hence all those I heart (fill in the blank) options out there. Plus, this tee has "tween" written all over it, making it deliciously awful, yet completely irresistable at the same time(sort of makes me understand that look on Edward's face when Bella first walks into their biology class).

In conclusion, about three things I am certain: First, Edward Cullen is a vampire. Second, I would be totally comfortable with having him thirst for my blood. And third, I am unconditionally and irrevocably obsessed--an obsession that is now bordering on unhealthy. Nonetheless, today isn't about me--no, no, no. Today is New Moon day, and that means we have only one task: to amp up the vamp. So get to it, my fearless fang-loving fashionistas--and I'll see you in the theatre.





Images, in order of appearance: (1)Scene from New Moon, thanks to Traffic Burst Blog (www.trafficburst.info/blog); (2) Vampire Fangs Necklace in Sterling Silver $20 by Everdreams Design, available on Etsy (click here); (3) Twilight Venom $16 by DuWop (available online at http://www.shop.duwop.com/); (4) I Love Vampires tee $26.50 from Delia's (online at http://www.delias.com/).

Betsey Is For LUNGevity--and You Should Be Too!

In addition to my friend Annie Rose's birthday and the Thanksgiving holiday, another reason that I love the month of November is because it's the National Lung Cancer Awareness Month. This national campaign is dedicated to increasing attention to lung cancer issues, including the awareness, research, support, and prevention of lung cancer. As a fashionista personally affected by this catastrophic disease, I can testify of the critical nature of these efforts--but I'm happy to say that I'm not the only fashionista who thinks so. Rather, Betsey Johnson is all about LUNGevity--and you should be too!

This month, Betsey has partnered with the LUNGevity Foundation, whose mission is dedicated to funding lung cancer research and providing support to those affected by lung cancer. She has created a limited edition tee to be sold exclusively at Everything But Water, both in stores and online. Every last penny of the proceeds (truly, 100%) will be donated to LUNGevity and their fight against lung cancer.

As I've mentioned before, the facts will take your breath away. Truth be told, lung cancer is responsible for more than 28% of all cancer-related deaths, accounting for more than 150,000 deaths in America every year. And timing is everything; according to the National Lung Cancer Partnership, only 16% of lung cancer patients are diagnosed before their disease has spread to other parts of their bodies. Such staggering statistics make the work of LUNGevity and similar organizations crucial. Since 2002, LUNGevity has funded over 50 research projects, making a immense contribution towards the clinical care knowledge of lung cancer.

Now, with the help of Betsey Johnson, the fight can be fashionable. So, dearest fashionista friends, in the name of LUNGevity: Join the fight--go shopping!

In memory of Daddy

Nicholas F. Warner

January 23, 1954-September 10, 2009

Thanks to Annie Rose for sharing the word about Betsey's partnership with LUNGevity! Images, in order of appearance: (1) Limited Edition Betsey Johnson tee for LUNGevity $48, available exclusively at Everything But Water (online at www.everythingbutwater.com); (2) Daddy and me.

Coming To A Head

In true Oberlin style, I was sitting in my afternoon dance class (which is unusual, seeing that we are usually moving!), Improvisation, which today was merged with the Collaborative Investigations class. Our purpose? To listen to Pulitzer-prize winning composer David Lang advise us on the collaborative and creative process. As I looked around the dance studio, I observed the mix of students: dancers from my class, as well as a blend of composers and musicians from the Conservatory and dance majors from the College working on projects together within the Collaborative Investigations class. It was, to say the least, a very interesting fashion mix, to be sure--from leotards to Prada loafers.

Among the sea of students, I was struck by a girl wearing the infamous forehead headband. My memory was immediately jogged, recalling London from America's Next Top Model Cycle 12, who was always sporting her headband across her forehead (much to Tyra's chagrin). Every pannel, Tyra would criticize London for the headband, but it would always come back. And I liked London! She posed well--if not fantastically--for pictures, and she was a pretty girl who believed in the good in people and thought it was kind of crazy that they chased her off one week for diet and weight issues. But I digress...

So it was this very "London" style choice that today left me contemplating... Sure, we wear belts to emphasize our waists, and use hems to accentuate other features. And of course, we wear bracelets on our wrists and necklaces too--so why not something on our foreheads? After all, the forehead is like the center of the chain, a vessel for the very minds that make us the strong, thoughtful women that we are. It's like saying, "Hey. Look right here. See what this is? Yeah, it's pretty great."

As far as celebrities go, Nicole Richie and MK have been spotted wearing the (fore)headband, a true testament to today's Boho-Hollywood feel. Relinquishing control of clothing and sporting less structured garments and hairstyles speaks to fashion's hopefully growing laissez-faire attitude, thus allowing style to develop, rather than be dictated. Always a joy to see.

The verdict for the everday girl: I think it's all too easy to make a mistake--too probable that your hair might bunch up on top (eew), or that the band could leave unsightly imprint lines. But for the goddesses of fierce among us, I say: go forth. Channel your inner Helen of Troy and draw attention to the strength and wonder of that pretty little head.

Images, in order of appearance: (1) ANTM's London, Cycle 12 (community.livejournal.com/topmodel/2403512.html); (2) London again, appearing on America's Next Top Model ( metanorn.kokidokom.net/2009/03/goddess-of-fierce/); (3) Nicole Richie and Mary Kate Olson sporting forehead headbands (http://stylenews.peoplestylewatch.com/2006/08/25/forehead-bands/).

Cigarettes: Wear Them!

My personal fashion must-have? J. Brand denim, no question. And thanks to Miss Ashley, Denim Goddess Extraordinaire from Belmont's own Bessie Blue, my latest obsession is J. Brand's low-rise cigarette leg pants. It should here be noted that if you lack the lust for denim, then you're in desperate need of a visit with Ashley. The girl has a serious gift; she can take just one look at you and determine exactly the brand and shape of denim for your body. But beware, you may develop a denim addiction (I am proof of this sickness). But I digress... The topic at hand is cigarettes: wear them!

Patron Saint of these tight-fitting ankle pants--or "cigarette pants" as we fashionistas know them--was Audrey Hepburn, who pioneered this (now) classic look both on and off the screen, wearing hers in black with basic ballet flats. Today’s denim edition are a modern interpretation of Audrey's black cigs, made to be form-fitting like whoa! and to give your legs that supermodel long, lean look. I'm obsessed with J. Brand's 914 version for their slim, sophisticated fit and "ink" wash that is so dark it borders on black.

For me, cigarette pants lend themselves best to two fashion scenarios. You can pair them with a longer-fitting, drape-y sweater and high-heeled boots for an equestrian effect, or you can go the metropolitan route and rock them with a black blazer and sky-high heels. And of course, you can always go Hepburn-chic and wear yours with simple ballet flats. In fact, it was Audrey herself who told women, My look is attainable. Indeed, cigarette pants + fashionista = sleek, stylish, perfection. So wear them!

Images, in order of appearance: 1) Audrey Hepburn, image thanks to www.fashioninmotion.wordpress.com; 2) 914 Low Rise Cigarette Leg in ink by J. Brand $158, available at Bessie Blue in Belmont or directly from J. Brand (online at www.jbrand.com).

Matte Finish(ed)

Ever since the Boston Globe predicted matte finish nails as one of the season's hot new trends, I've been curious--and doubtful. Why matte finish? Isn't part of a manicure's allure that shiny, polished look? Take that away, and what's left? Well, last night I had the opportunity to find out...

Needing to replenish my supply of Black Satin Nail Colour, I detoured to the Chanel counter at Nordstrom on my ride home from work--to no avail (it was out). For the sake of free shipping, I ordered my polish then and there, but in the meantime, my nails needed a plan B. I headed towards Sephora, since I'm all about OPI for Sephora these days. Being mentally prepared for black nails, I was forced to choose my own adventure: (1) Go for another bottle of black, even though my favorite polish was already paid for and en route to my house; OR (2) Act like a grown-up and pick a different color. Fortunately for this indecisive fashionista, the choice was an easy one, thanks to Sephora by OPI's Matte Nail Colour Collection--and specifically What's A Tire Jack?, their limited edition shade of matte black. According to Sephora, matte polish is a nail-color trend for fashion-forward manicure mavens. Was I such a maven?--obviously a question that needed an answer.

If you're unfamiliar with matte polish, then you should know that it is not intended to be worn with either a base coat or a top coat (gasp!). Nor is it intended to last as long as your standard polish (eyebrow raise?). Nonetheless, I was willing to try it. And after an exhaustive DIY spa regime, ten fingers and ten toes were impeccably matted.

The verdict? Unless I'm the only weird, artsy, fashion freak in the room, then perhaps you remember painting your fingernails with actual paint when you were a child--you know, when you were distracted during art class or something? Shockingly, this has the same effect. All the shine and snap of your standard manicure is reduced to the look of gloss-less paint. Sephora's website claims that matte nail color is not for everyone--further explaining that it is for the woman who likes to lead instead of follow and who wants to make a daring fashion statement. I would agree, but only if your definition of daring is "I want my nails to look like I scraped paint off the wall."

Needless to say, I'm not loving it. I'm just hoping my Black Satin arrives with some serious quickness, before people start thinking the recession has me resorting to Crayola paint instead of grown-up polish. Consider this fashionista matte finish(ed).

Image: black matte nails, photo from the August 27, 2009 Boston Globe article, Four fall fashion trends you can live with by Hayley Kaufman. Information from Sephora, online at www.sephora.com.

Fingerless and Fabulous

As we fashionistas prep for the winter ahead, the question always becomes one of function versus fashion. The truth is that no fashionista likes the word "practicality," as it very rarely appears in the same sentence as "hot" (except here!--I defy the rules). I have given much thought to this issue during these recent chilly mornings, when I can hardly stand to touch my icy-cold steering wheel, much less drive the whole way to work. Brrr!

The problem is this: I looove mittens, but you really can't drive in cozy wool mittens. Believe me, I've tried. Your hands slip all over the steering wheel, which is never a good thing when you're trying to operate a motor vehicle (then add snow or ice to the equation--forget about it). BUT I really hate gloves. I hate having my fingers separated like that, and I just find nothing cute about them whatsoever. So how does a girl stay warm when enough dexterity is required so that you can't wear mittens but don't want to wear gloves? Yes, my life is full of complications.

Fortunately for my cccold hands, I've figured this one out; it's all about going fingerless to stay fabulous. I am now officially obsesed with fingerless gloves. The genius behind this simple concept: my hands stay warm, while my finger tips are free to grip the steering wheel, use my Blackberry, get my credit card from my wallet, etc. For the New England fashionista on the go, they are absolutely crucial for winter survival.

The added bonus is that the current styles are doubling as arm warmers. They say that your arm span is equivalent to your height so, if you're anywhere even close to my height, that means there sometimes an irritating gap between where a jacket ends and a mitten begins. No longer! At least half of the fingerless gloves I've spotted lately have a lengthy fit, extending practically to the elbow in some cases. Another common feature is the adjustable mitten, which is exactly what it sounds like. When you need your fingers free, the mitten top can be fastened with a button; then, when you want to maximize the cozy factor, all you have to do unbutton and cuddle up.

Fashionable and warm? Please, they had me at "hello."


Images, in order of appearance: (1) Cable Fingerless Gloves by Vince $125, available from Shop Style (www.shopstyle.com); (2) Long Fingerless Wool Gloves by Milly $95, available from Net-a-Porter (www.net-a-porter.com).